Don't Spoil that special day

Whether it is your wedding, or you are one of the special people involved, it is a day to remember. For many people it is one of the few occasions when they will have to speak in public. For these people, this is a one-off event that can suddenly take over their thoughts. I get emails mentioning words like terrified, frightened, panic-struck. This is not how that special day should be! For most of those people, a full-blown course is not the best answer. Instead I would suggest a shorted half day one2one session that concentrates on that specific speech, writing, editing, practising delivery and gaining confidence. A half day is a long time when it is individual coaching. A lot can be achieved, allowing the rest of the wedding preparations to be enjoyed. As we approach the most popular months for weddings, why not have a chat with us to see how we can ensure that the whole day - including the speeches - is wonderful, memorable and perfect. Click onto our site www.businesstrainingdirect.co.uk and start to put your mind at rest.

Competitions for 2006

I mentioned in an earlier posting the structure of competitions - club to area, area to district and district to National Finals. In March I was competing at District for the South East. Sadly, that is where the competitions ended for me this year. Having made it to the finals in the past, it would have been great to do it again, but pretty unusual as well. On the day, my speech was not chosen to go forward. I suspect virtually all of you will choose not to speak just for fun in competition. That does not mean there are not lessons that can be learnt from the process. Preparation is vital if you are going to succeed. For some that is a longer process, for others shorter. Learn what is right for you. You want to be rehearsed, but not just give a recital. Find the balance where the structure is in place, but the filling has an element of impromptu or spontaneous speaking about it. That way your presentation will be clear, logical but retain interest and vitality. Remember content is important but so are the delivery skills. Don't neglect one in favour of the other! For all presentations - have fun. Enjoy your speaking.